Good Morning Derek,
Its Charles from the NY bootcamp a few weeks ago. I just wanted to say thank you once again for the time that you and your assistants spent coaching us this weekend. I have found that the information you provided has made me much more grounded in terms of my game at work, and with daily interactions. I find myself taking a lot more action and getting in the reps more than I did before and not because I feel like going out (a lot of times I haven’t) but because I am a man that gets shit done and takes control of my life. I find that I am more confident with women, with my patients and most importantly being myself. I have offended several people through my brutally honest interactions which I always tried to avoid in the past but now the women who vibe with me are hooked! no flakiness, last minute resistance. I even pulled a Swedish girl I met on the bus ride home from NY. once again Derek, I cannot thank you enough! I will be in contact with you. but if you need anything even someone to help you in any capacity on a bootcamp. Let me know!
The bootcamp was fucking amazing. I have never in my life made such instant change, especially in areas that were core beliefs that I have had trouble shifting for years. The guidance Derek and his assistants gave were spot on in for what I needed and did it in a way that really made an impact. This was also the second time in my life I got same night lays two nights in a row and both with were pretty girls and made out with a really sexy girl in the club to add on to that.
I had so much fun and grew so much I seriously wish all my weekends were bootcamp weekends aside from the lack of sleep I got, but it was completely worth it!
Thank you for taking the time to pay Berlin a visit in September. I wanted to write a review on my BootCamp experience so that you can use it for whatever you want. Do you want me to post it anywhere helpful to you?
Derek told me on the Bootcamp that I came here for reasons a lot different than his average student, hope other guys here can take something away from this review.
Lets start by answering the most obvious questions, do I recommend taking the Bootcamp? Hell yeah. Was it worth the money? Absolutely. Will it change your life? Hell yeah again. Would I consider doing it again? Yep, when I have the time and if he hosts another bootcamp soon in proximity to where I live.
Derek is a well rounded individual who have attained huge goals with both Business and Chicas. I had some very specific questions for him coming up to the bootcamp. Not so much technique in game, but rather mindsets, relationship management, pursuing multiple goals, time management, and life management etc. I wanted some answers to form my own long term plan for life and elevate my thinking.
Derek is unlike any guy you ever met. If you search the forums you pretty much get a sense of what he is like and what type of game he teaches, I dont think I can add much there. One of his main points he tries to convey is that he views us as men as appreciating assets, how abundant the world is, and how you should screen for what you want in a girl/girls dependent on your life situation. Go find and chase the women / woman that you want to be with and work on yourself to become a king, and you will have an awesome life. He values a Bro above women, just like me.
What I most of all got out of the Bootcamp though was the answers to my questions. I know have a much clearer view as to how to pursue my future goals and dreams. We had a few discussions on business, will be my primary focus coming next year. How he views relationships, both short and long term. How he views kids. How he handles his time. How to think more rational as a man etc.
After the weekend was done I had a crystal clear view of how one can live in a way that you do not see in your average walk of life. I had come close to the same conclusions on my own, but seeing somebody live it thoroughly about 12 years ahead of you makes it that much more easy to visualize. After I got home I made my own roadmap, and been chipping away at it ever since. One thing that really helped me is to think about life in cycles. To know that you can truly have it all if you focus on a few key goals, one at a time. That you can have your cake and eat it.
Hit him up as soon as you fu*king can before he stops doing these Bootcamps for pocket change, you will be a very sad man 10 years from now if you dont. He can save you a LOT of pain, and point you towards a LOT of glory – just by talking about his mindset with you. The investment is nothing, maybe steep if you are a student, but the price of what he talks about and how it changes your life / makes your roadmap more clear – I dont know how to put a price tag on that.
This is Edward – I had taken your April 14-16 bootcamp in Sydney. I just wanted to say that since the bootcamp, I’ve slept with 5 girls in a span of two weeks, three of which were really attractive and my type. One of the girls I had met in Melbourne actually travelled to Sydney to stay at mine for three days! I also have a really attractive German who I’m seeing casually. Needless to say, the post bootcamp results have been amazing.
I have now completed 6 subjects of my Business Administration degree. I moved into a new role at work which is significantly better than the last and pays much better too. The business with Ziah didn’t pan out but from going through the process of attempting I learnt the skills to start two of my own, both are small side projects currently but I am enjoying experimenting with them.
One of which I DJ across a number of Sydney clubs (also performed in Singapore).
The other I help other business’ set up cloud infrastructure to run their business more successfully such as websites, emails, online storage etc.
With all that it has also lead to decent success in my dating life.
I attribute most of the above to the path you help set me on, it took a while for me to move my life around to change direction but I am starting to see the results now.
I also hope everything is going well for you too which you are probably killing it in every area. Hopefully we run into each other somewhere in the world but if not let me know when you are back in Sydney and hopefully we can catch up.
hope you are doing great!
This is just to let you know that I will be at the upcoming Miami summit, it will be great to see you again and maybe have a steak together?
Since my bootcamp in Copenhagen in September I enjoyed great improvements and success with girls and attitude in life in general.
Now I am currently seeing a beautiful interesting girl, and that’s not even the best thing of it…the best thing of it is that I feel very confident that no matter what happens, I can get back any time to my single life and find another awesome girl.
This feeling of confidence and self-worthiness I got from your teachings is invaluable.
So, looking forward to seeing you and of course to meeting the other instructors/guys at the summit, too.
Hope you’re well.
It has been about a year since I shadowed you on bootcamp in Perth and since I’ve come such a long way, I thought I’d shoot over a quick email and thank you officially.
Its funny actually. I first came across you at Vegas immersion in 2013-14 and your philosophies or the way you look at game/life struck a chord right away. Then I returned to Australia and since I had never seen you in action per se, I thought I’d shadow you on bootcamp a year later.
I don’t know how but that bootcamp which was meant to about pickup and girls, ended up being the kick in the nuts I needed for business and life in general. I mean, yea I learnt a lot about pickup too but after that BC, I started REALLY hustling my ass, working 15 to 18 hour days for months on end without any clients. And now here I am 12 months later, running a pretty decent business and thinking about setting up systems so I can keep scaling.
Of course, I had other coaching I paid a premium for but none of that would have happened if some sort of urgency hadn’t kicked in and it kicked in that weekend in Perth.
So once again, thanks a lot and love all your Mastermind stuff too. If there is anything I can do to make your life easier if and when you are in Australia next, please do not hesitate to let me know.
All I can say is that our weekend with Derek was one of the greatest, and indubitably most life-altering experiences of my life up till this point. I’ve learnt core traits and skills, which will hold me in good stead throughout my future, both in terms of my success with women as well as my general approach towards life as a human being and ability to be extremely socially intelligent.
He picked up on the qualities I already possessed such as my foundational confidence while speaking to people, maintaining eye contact, and also the fact that I possess the organic ability to be socially savvy. He was also extremely cooperative in immediately pointing out my sticking points and this will really help me leapfrog from the level I was at before the boot camp to a place where I can get more consistent results each time I go out.
I would also love to attend the summit in Vegas this August and heard that it would be free for anyone whose attended the boot camp. I am sincerely interested and would really appreciate if you could let me know how to go about the registration to book my spot for Vegas.
In the end I do feel that I learned a lot from Derek. I’d like to break this into sections
This guy just seems to be a complete boss in the sense that he is living by his own standards to an extent that I have never seen a person live by their own standards before. He is completely honest and expressive with his feelings and desires and is also completely unapologetic about them. Basically he just does whatever the fuck he wants.
The best way that I can describe Derek is it seems like he is walking with a Magneto like force field around him that comes into contact with everyone as soon as they enter it. This clash often creates a highly uncomfortable atmosphere as people are drawn into a frame of reality that they may not be used to, but Derek’s sense of reality is stronger than any other person that I have met to this day I believe. Anyways, eventually people either bounce off or respond the way he expects them to.
Seems like people drop all cultural and societal norms around him and live by the laws of Derek.
On the first day we did some talk about my personality, lifestyle, story, goals, etc. then he offered a general explanation of his life philosophy and mindsets. We hit the field and he behaved in what seemed to be some really strange ways to me in the beginning but now I believe what he was doing was testing how comfortable I was with different things.
We ended with more talk about what happened and work on mind sets.
I then sent a pretty negative email about the first day of the boot camp expecting more out of it. Derek hilariously responded by say, “What’s with all the negativity?” and then we had a short discussion about it. Shows pretty clearly the strength of his frames.
Derek outlined my specific sticking points and gave me step by step actions that I can use to work on them. He set us goals for the day and then we went out. We opened a few sets and I worked on the things Derek said.
This was actually one of the most hilarious things that I have ever experienced. We totally walked into that bar and completely owned it. I opened two girls, the other student opened two or three…? and I believe Derek opened some as well and we moved them all to a table area in the back. As soon as any of the girls left we went and got more. Derek framed himself and as the leader of the group and I am pretty sure that none of these girls had any idea that we had just merged the sets into a massive party.
Despite all of this, Derek was still laying down sexual frames over and over in the midst of all of this. Then we walked out with what I considered to be the hottest girls, took them to another bar and I was going to bounce them home which the other student ruined.
Derek was listening into my conversation while I had them isolation which I completely appreciated and then gave me feedback on it the next day.
Derek had a 3 hour lunch with us where he gave us generalized philosophy and specific actionable advice.
I will send another email where I explain the action plan that Derek gave me because I am really tired right now. The main bullet points were:
– Too logical
– More physicality (Esp. baseline physicality)
– Bring you penis (She has to opt out of sex by leaving)
– Screening and qualifying
This is only the beginning of what we talked about and he gave me specific examples and actionable advice along with all of these as well.
I believe the real value in this program comes from getting a clear idea of what you are doing wrong and how to fix those issues. Without this, I would have had no idea was I was doing wrong or how to fix it.
Since the program, I picked up a chick on the street and got physical with her within two hours, saw her the next day. She was scheduling our next meeting which will be next week.
I have noticed that the sets are opening better and that I am working a lot on leading and physicality which is getting me much better results or getting the chicks to leave with me.
I have been feeling a lot more satisfaction with my life and getting better results with my approaches already though. I do feel like I got all I wanted out of the program which was personalized feedback and a step by step process as to fix my sticking points.
Thank you very much Derek for all the help, and you are a boss and an inspiration. I would love to be as unapologetic as you but that will take time.
All the best,
Thought I write you a little update about the things that happened to me, after we met in Vegas.
To be honest, I was incredibly exhausted after the bootcamp respectively the last 2 weeks in Vegas in general.
Since I focused on taking all pressure off while being in the club, it wasn’t that much of a problem to be tired as shit, while talking to women, as it was before. I felt MUCH more comfortable.
The results were fucking amazing. I pulled 6 girls home in 5 days right after the bootcamp (whereas I didn’t fuck them all).
I guess the highlight was, that one of them took a dump in my bed, after she had an orgasm. No joke, the whole bed was full of shit.
I would send you a picture, but since I wasn’t able to eat for 24 hours after that incident, I guess that’s not the best idea. Apart from that I had my first orgasm with a condom inside a vagina EVER today. After 24 years and 361 days, it finally happened.
After this girl left my flat, I was just about to cry. However, I’m pretty sure that I’m not completely over this whole porn thing, but I’m on a damn good way and I was never so happy referring to that whole potency thing.
Take care and again, thanks for everything.
The second night was unbelievable!!!
I isolated this hot Norwegian girl from her group…grab a drink & talked for almost 40 minutes. I could not bounce her to the next venue but I got her number & good positive reference. I opens a lot of really tough sets & get the conversation going. In the next venue I made out with this hot Canadian girl & had great time.
Derek was there every time I needed him & he helped me pushing my limits & also reminded me the right action when I was getting overwhelmed in the interaction.
It was such a great experience learning from him. Specially during the briefs, he explained everything in such a great detail & answer all of my questions. He is such an inspiration. Spending time with him was an amazing experience in itself. A lot to learn from him, his lifestyle & his values.
Graham was also very helpful in the venues & during the briefs. He took notes about my approaches and pointed out what I need to improve & how.
Overall, it was a great weekend. Now I have the game plan to execute step by step to improve my dating life. I got most of my limiting beliefs removed with the explanation from Derek.
Just wanted to drop a quick note as it’s been an incredible week.
Closed a hot 23 year old bisexual out of the club on Friday. I have some day two’s set up with a very high status 22 year old Norwegian, a sexy down home “girl next door” type that works corporate for a high end fashion brand and a recent exotic Vegas transplant. These were all the results of one night. I am anticipating some threesome adventures with the bisexual and will keep you apprised. My rotation management has also improved significantly.
I attribute the success this week to the shift fully into the mindset you described of how a “10” woman views the night and life; I am out to have fun with my friends and if a very attractive member of the opposite sex wants to be part of the fun, she is invited to partake, IF she happens to align with my value system. The result has been nights of “bringing the fun” that is incredibly infectious to women.
As you know, pre-Boot Camp I was doing pretty well, however, with the subtle, nuanced tweaks you had me make, there is absolutely no tension to my nights nor any of my interactions with girls at the upper echelon of what I consider to be attractive and high value.
Thanks again for pinpointing exactly what was needed to take me to the next level and conveying it in the unique and extremely pragmatic fashion that you are known for.
I look forward to seeing you again soon!
I took your bootcamp in October in NYC.
I was the guy in which you said on the first night I was being too “gay” and “not enough balls”.
Been gaming since.
I finally absorbed it.
Now I get it. Now I fucking get it! Holy shit!!
Derek the investment is already paying off, as soon as I left I got to work, went to a roof top bar and pulled a hot little thang in about an hour after we parted ways. I’ll definitely pay to do this again.. this vid is graphic, Dont watch if you are afraid of penises lmao (back of an Uber)
What I got from you, that made this happen, was being audacious and ready to confront.
Thank you so much!
Was thinking about you so wanted to write you quick email. Hope you are having a blast in Europe and enjoying their gorgeous young girls, historical sites and great restaurants!
I just wanted to give you quick recap of my recent adventures.
Been hitting gym hard and getting some personal training. Want to raise my fitness a bit more.
Things at work have been busy and my leadership skills, management and attention to detail have been stellar. On love life side, it’s been great too.
I wanted to share outline of yesterday (wednesday) events with you:
- 11am – 7pm – very busy productive day at my office
- 730pm – 830pm – hit cross fit gym hard
- 845pm – 1015pm – quick protein intake, travel to Brooklyn
- 11-1am – more essential after workout food at new restaurant where I met and vibed with very wealthy owner of 2 restaurants, free drinks, got invite to his 2 yachts (while good looking female friend of mine had to ask for an invite)
- 1am-330am – invited by local DJ to only happening club (its wednesday) where vibed with 21year old birthday girl and 24-year-old. jealous looser co-owner was trying to get security on me with an owner of the place. He was trying to get them both while trying to feed them alcohol. I handled that while getting girls into me and getting their info (both with friends and both regulars there who get free drinks by owners so couldn’t pull)
21-year-old talked today and setting things up to hang out soon
met a friend at same club and spend time at his table with complementary drinks
noticed another very pretty tall red head girl who was into my friend so made her vibe with him (later he pulled and closed her and thanked me over text today)
- 4 am on the way home from the club had taxi stop few blocks short of my parents’ house since noticed beautiful girl walking down the street alone. (beauty had a phone fight with mom in Russia and wanted to get air and some cigarettes. mistake on her part that she later enjoyed
- 4am-6:30am – walked with her to local grocery, got soda (seeded whisky/coke quick drink at my place) got her to our house and closed her (Russian beautiful blonde ex-ballet dancer) while managing noise levels and her little lmr
- 630 am -7am – walked her block away from our house to her apartment while she begged few times not to tell neighbors what happened. took a while for her to digest events.
- 7am-710am – got her number while shaming her that she seduced me and does not even remember my name (she finally remembered after some struggles) , blamed everything that transpired on her.
- 710am-715am – made out with her while little kids and parents were getting their kids on school buses, some struggled to understand make outs that early in am while kids walking
- 715am-725am – said hello to my dad and step mom, while they were on the way to work and excused myself to get some rest, hopping that noise levels were not identified.
Thanks for all your great help and coaching, I keep working on it and raising that bar.
Please feel free to share my story with your clients and your team. Hope they find it helpful.
Let me know of how I can be of any assistance to you in NYC or elsewhere.
Enjoy your European adventures and looking forward to seeing you soon.
I spent a month busting my ass on Vegas Immersion and banged exactly zero chicks. Then I went on Derek’s bootcamp last weekend and closed a 20-year-old the first night and a 21-year-old the second night… and as a 34-year-old guy this was a HUGE shift. And I pulled it off because Derek and his team (who could be game/life/business coaches by themselves) identified some limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns I didn’t even know I had. Then they took the time to build up my self-esteem in a very logical, no-bullshit way so I felt confident like I just never had before. So if you’re serious about getting better results, Derek’s bootcamp is an excellent investment.
- Brian Crabtree
I’ve been going hard this whole week, and getting killer results. There’s so much to learn from you I’ve realized. Fully understanding your saying “there’s plenty of girls out there, that want to be with you” lead me to cast a huge net everywhere I go. Approach after approach, and optimizing each lead, capitalizing on their friends. My goal is to have 7-10 HOT girls obsessed with me, I’ll easily accomplish this realistic goal thanks to you. I just fucked the hottest 18 year old too, I met her while biking yesterday. Your always welcome to meet some of my girls in the future, I can send you pics or surprise you. Anyway, you had recommended Australia and New Zealand back-to-back for the observer seats. I’d love to secure these spots. If there’s anything you need to tell me before then to work on please let me know.
I recently just completed my second bootcamp with Derek and it is amazing the difference in attitude and behavior I experience after each day. Derek cuts through the shit and tells you exactly what you need to hear. He doesn’t bother with pick up lines or openings he just emphasizes the importance of being yourself and being unfiltered. He guides you with ways to do this and gives you a plan of action that leads to the success you are looking to achieve. I am extremely excited for my 3rd bootcamp and the observation sessions. The improvement in my game is amazing so far.
All the best guys,
Me and a buddy were in a deep discussion yesterday about what it means to really be a man and have the courage to actually go after what you want instead of just blabbing about it and fucking around and it’s always helpful to have some archetype in the back of your mind that shows you it’s all possible – so thanks for being that archetype for me and my buddy.
To start I need to thank you for your tutelage, it is hard to believe the turn around in my life. The girl I am seeing is sexy, smart, funny, and picked me up in a range rover. Furthermore, I spend my entire time in the club talking with the sexiest women there.
The sticking point that I am dealing with right now is smoothly breaking and re-opening a set. When I break the set to open another I catch myself talking like I am ending a business meeting or some shit, and when I re-open a set I lose the enthusiasm that I got from her the first time around.
I had a situation where I was working 2 women against each other one a 9 and the other a 7, the 7 would have walked out with me almost immediately but I chose to go for the 9, I pulled her but we didn’t fuck. I ended up fucking her on a later date but at the time I was pissed that I passed up a sure thing, I am just curious what your thoughts are on the situation.
Thank you for your time.
I have been going out consistently 2 nights a week with wings + sticking to 5/day minimums.
Working on implementing all the fundamental things you told me during our bootcamp.
-Had my first cold approach kiss (within around an hour of meeting the girl on the street) a day after bootcamp. That I thought was way out of my league which blew my mind.
-Pulled to bathroom at Drais. The woman told me after that she was married and had kids. Blew my mind x2
-Met a pretty Ukrainian girl in the day. Got her all the way to bedroom on 3rd meet but she wouldn’t do it. She’s trying to lock me into a relationship first… Still furthest I have gotten yet from daytime cold approach.
-Finally pulled and closed from Drais. A girl that was a 9 for me personally. Super excited. Ended up sleeping with her again a week later. Blew my mind x 3
Great meeting you guys this weekend.
After being more congruent to my personality, pointing shit out that I didn’t like and using my voice much more plus leading as if I know her. I pulled a 36 year, hot, blond, nasty teacher (in bed she loved being slapped quite intense which was new for me).
It was interesting how fast everything happened in the club. About 30min I’ve spent with her in conversation, handled the insecurity that she felt because she was out with her colleagues and then I took her to my place. What was the big difference that brought me to the pull?
The big difference was, that I jumped into the set very intense, showed sexual interest very fast and leading even as she wanted to run away because she said: “I must find a friend to take care of him.”
I took her back, flirted a bit with her and whispered into her ear to make a decision, I am not going to run after her. Either she goes and takes care for the dude that is to drunk to watch out for himself or she comes within the next 5 minutes to exit the club with the right swiss dude that is going to give her a hot night.
Without hesitation, she said okay and I thought to myself: “Hmm, all that was needed is a guy, that is very certain about what he tolerates and wants” I am grateful that you made me realize my biggest sticking points – Thanks for observing me at the weekend!
I will continuously focus on the following points:
#1 – Call out every night a hot girl on shit that I don’t like (leave her and mean it!)
#2 – Put away that nice guy shit (by being the nice dude I reward the woman for treating me disrespectful)
#3 – Take the fucking lead and do what comes to my mind with the girl.
See you soon,
Just wanted to follow up with you after bootcamp. I’ve been going out at least 3-4 nights a week after bootcamp. I’ve hooked up with a ton of girls and let go of a ton of toxic relationships. I simply feel more entitled to life my life on my terms.
- Best, River
You came through Vancouver at the beginning of May to give your VIP Tour and Bootcamp.
Man I am appreciative there are people in the world like you! Your brutal savagness and honesty regarding world view was epic and just helped me cut a lot of my doubts out and move on in life. Thank you for the bluntness and the fuck yous in the 3 hours you spent with us.
Your comment about “You’re either TOO lazy or TOO stupid” really struck and hit home.
I’ve went out more aggressively, I started screening more and really cutting through the bullshit. In return I have had more meaningful relationships built in the process and far more epic people which i have met.
Sometimes it was a risk to do something but at this stage i was willing to lose it in order to learn, The responses were UNREAL. People are more receptive because you make it easy for people and you don’t bullshit them. Especially the ones of higher value.
Making life Black and White like you said has made an epic roadmap and made it very easy to create decisions. By finding people who operate on the same parallel we are now able to work together and bring value to each other to boost each others successes and raise overall value.
I was fortunate enough to see your assistants on the streets of Vancouver while they were ending bootcamp one of the nights and had the pleasure of having a chat with them about their thoughts on vancouver.
You guys have tipped me over the stupid beliefs and excuses i had and I am thankful for that. Life has started turning into an upward spiral. Pieces of the puzzles sticking together. Taking smart risks has never had more reward towards the end goals.
There is still so much epicness to discover, but the foundation has been set.
Thanks again man, keep doing what you do and kick ass
Want to keep this short and sweet.
First off results:
Absolutely ridiculous, I feel it’s hard to even believe. Most weekends/periodically during week game since Bootcamp = minimum one girl, often two closing on same night or Day 2/3 per week.
Coaching Hockey/My Own Business:
Such a desire to step up and execute after all your help and support. Our first product is finally launching in about a month. As for the summer sessions with NHL/WHL/College players, I have such a greater presence on the ice and can feel the respect level is so much higher from the players/it’s so much more fun now.
I wanted to ask you this question specifically:
With all these new girls coming in, who are much much higher level and more beautiful girls than I have ever had before (basically all just from being on the hockey team/puck sluts other than the last girl I dated). What is your overarching mindset/theory of thinking to become icy and have the ability to handle the drama and emotions. I’ve always been a empathetic guy and right now am feeling quite all over the place. I have clearly defined all my goals and how I want to live my life by staying single for a long period of time, but can’t help think of somehow getting a little more serious with a few of these girls.
PS: Australia flights are booked, can’t fucking wait.
Thank you again for all your mentorship. My life is forever changed.
Hi Derek, hope you are well and having a blast with your outstanding life really happy to meet you and you had a massive impression in my life and standards in just 5 days! Wow!
I want to be around more people like you, high achievers very alpha and leader with no fucks given although my way or the highway high self awareness and empathy which are very unique and hard to find (for me)
I’m very grateful for your time and input to everyone, you spotted our evolution needs and gave us feedback, oh man the way you structure your feedback is amazing I would catch myself firkin nodding my head like crazy and the assistants are awesome thank you for bringing them on board.
I have written bellow everything in bullet points to make it easy for you to read, let me know if this works making your awesome busy life easy.
I’m grateful for
Making the decision to go to your boot camp with you and your assistants and investing in two more boot camps.
The power of adding massive value – your assistant’s dedication and your powerful leadership, that’s what I want to build around me.
I’m very grateful for the physicality demo you gave me first hand on the last day and I’ve been practicing in my interactions.
It was amazing to be in the presence of someone so powerful as you, it rubs off on me and made me want to raise my standards and tighten my game.
I’m humbled with your kind words during the boot camp and your recognition of my hard work and “no fucks given” you were right about it and it felt great to hear someone else recognize it.
Your assistants are amazing and gave us massive value I’m overwhelmed by their value and attitude looking after us the young pups welcoming us to the Wolfpack.
What is good
Your boot camp showed me what I must work for the next three months before we meet again.
Physicality, advance the interaction by becoming more physical and making the girl understand I have a penis that goes into her vagina mouth and asshole.
Chose and bring the girls to isolation where the magic happens, you have to move things.
Mr Nice guy has to fucking go, he’s messing up my life and emotions mainly by creating false expectations.
I must step up my game 100%, this starts massively by who I spend time with.
No more hanging out with wings who don’t have my best interests at heart (two-way relationships) and follow Derek/Ryan wingmanship principles.
1 weekend out of the 5 weekends, 2x weekends traveling to be with family and 1x Tony @UPW 1x working, talked to girls on all of them no closes…
Took another lesson on day game on the weekend following our boot camp to get feedback on how I was stopping girls.
I can’t count the nr of girls I approached (I want to measure this) no lays or dates though – not happy with this and totally responsible for these results.
Hang out with Valerian and Jeff after boot camp and immediately I realised that you where motivating (out of fear) because I became too laid back – Props to you for instilling the fear into action #bosswolf but this has to come from me.
Sent your Ryan’s interview video to anyone who wants to hangout out inclusive my wing and we now follow the principles from that interview, our interactions dynamic changed, girls get excited to see us being so cool with each other.
The month of April following the boot camp has been full on:
Got sick with a cold still worked on my business/client even if at home, no more feeling sorry for myself time.
Tony Robbins UPW event, flew in my brother for the event and got a massive discount from Andres (he’s awesome!!) for my friend, we are creating a connection of people who want to work together on getting a better life and step up their standards.
Found a business & life coach @UPW to help me with my psychology and planning to grow my business from one person operator to seven people business owner for the next 6/12 months.
Traveled to NLD, Harleem to spend time and support my family.
Traveled to Portugal to my mothers birthday experience and create magic moments.
Delivered massive value to my only client stepping up my game and managing tight deadlines.
Gave notice of my sharing small flat in central London to force me out to a 1 bed flat for myself in central and improve my logistics as a step to increase my lifestyle and standards of living.
I still stay in my comfort zone with negative talk when I see that really hot girl, there are a couple fixes for the mental masturbation.
Say yes while walking in the street to block the no which keeps popping up in my head.
Reduce the reaction time by saving on the energy resisting it.
Increase the nr of people you talk to while getting out of the work professional mode into the social mode.
Stop the winning little bitch nice guy talk that goes like “oh she’s busy it’s impolite to interrupt her” fuck that!
Ask myself “What would Derek tell me if he was here and saw me dabbling around?”
No girls brought home, this is mostly because of two factors.
Talk to more girls, I could have spoken with more girls, I could have pushed some interactions further opposed to staying in my comfort zone, find an accountability partner with consequences.
Dedicate more time to go out or be out, conciliate this with entrepreneurship events so I leverage the type of people and the situations connected with business goals as well.
What Am I working on?
Getting better logistics, moving houses by July and raise my standards of living.
Business & Life coach to up my game and get my business to an all different level.
Get more physical and move the interaction to my place (2x) and get dates planned (5x 1 per week).
Funny story, met up with a couple of guys, one old enough to be my son so we opened a bunch of sets me saying “Hey this is my son, does he look like more me or the mother?” Of course, they would say the mother to which I would start a drama saying he looked like the backer to which I was suspicious to be screwing my wife and now I was divorcing and out to date again, the reactions where priceless fun as fuck.
Big hugs and gratitude!
I’m proud to inform you that I got my first post bootcamp lay last night.
I had my “marketing” dialed in super tight and just didn’t hold anything back. It resulted in the girl escalating on me, AND she secured the logistics for us.
Thanks for helping me get my head straight.
Thank you for your precious time during our Vegas BC last weekend (3/16-18). Your insights have affected us all deeply. I’ve already had some great progress this weekend. I plan to execute on your advice and update you every 30 days. I would also appreciate if you could offer advice on a book list that you think may be helpful in a student’s journey. Thanks
- Ken (Vegas BC 3/2018)
Hope all is well with you and I wanted to take a minute and fill you in on how my life has improved after taking the bootcamp with you last month. Before I even dive into that aspect, I just wanted to thank you and your assistants again for pointing things out in my game that had never even crossed my mind before such as not pumping myself up before an interaction and how important being honest and sincere is. By applying those two things alone, I have already begun seeing a steady level of improvement, and I’m confident that if I keep going out and executing on those principles, I will have the results that I want in a year from now.
On top of that, I’m currently working on improving my life as well. I am switching majors from Computer Science to something in the business field (leaning towards Business Administration with a concentration in Business Economics) next semester. I’m also working on becoming a lot more cultured and well rounded. I’m heading to Boston and Montreal tomorrow morning and I plan on hitting up a few museums, clubs, and a couple of Bon Jovi shows while I’m there. While there have been some ups and downs, I feel like I have an extremely clear roadmap to getting to where I want to go and it’s up to me to get there.
Anyway, what exciting things have been going on with you?
Thank you D! You have inspired me to take action again!
Thank you very much, Derek
Much appreciated! Below is my testimonial.
“I recently took a bootcamp with Derek. I specifically chose Derek because I felt he could best address my needs to get to the next level in my development. I had seen him speak a couple of years ago and learned he is a guy that is tough and straightforward. I had a couple years of game experience, but recently felt I reached a plateau. To assist in getting through my plateau I did not want someone who would coddle me and give me undeserved praise, but rather someone who would kick my butt and give me honest direct feedback.
The best part of Derek’s bootcamp is he gets to know you as a person, and then gives you tailored feedback. Furthermore, he was able to explain his feedback in a way that made visceral sense to me. I have done other self-development coaching where the instructor would give the same “generic” advice to everyone. I did not find that type of coaching to be helpful. In addition, Derek brought us to a great venue where game could be easily practiced. After the infield coaching he gave me actionable feedback and a game plan to move forward.
I would recommend highly Derek’s bootcamp to anyone who is serious about getting to the next level. He will be tough on you, but will prioritize that you get the feedback you really need to move forward.”
Holy fucking shit!!
I’ve become more of myself, really progressed with a small minority of girls. I’m more honest with myself and couldn’t be happier, and am about to land a job with at least double the salary!!
- Victor, the last swede!
This is Nav I took your Bootcamp last December 8-10th in NYC. I am emailing you to inform you of my progress as well as having some questions I’d like to ask. Since the bootcamp I’ve made massive progress in my game. I’ve gone out every weekend 2-3 nights a week applying constantly what I learned and now 2 months later everything I do in set is natural. I rarely get approach anxiety, I’m able to be more man to woman,teasing the girl is a lot easier, I have no problems displaying my personality or being ashamed of who I am to the girl, and everything just seems more natural without thinking. Three weeks ago I managed to get a pull from one of the nightclubs here at school and she was so into me she started escalating on me.
Boy, did the scene change in a matter of 24 hours!!
Again some of the notes may be irrelevant but for my records.
With the encouragement of Derek and the team and their wise words from experience I built on day 1 at the club. (What I can offer them vs what they can offer me, why would I be on comfortable with girls my daughters age…)
I started looking at younger girls as absolutely just that – given that my oldest daughter is 18 now, but much younger than the ones I had really cool interactions with last night.
Shortly after entry to the club I had a great interaction with Celine (need I say my favorite type) even though I noticed she picked up some strife from some boy obviously connected there in some way. The mistake I made was I left the interaction and thought I would come back to it, but the opportunity was lost.
Shortly after I kept the momentum up and did another 3 set with one gay looking boy included. (In past I would have avoided any sets where a guy was present, but sure not anymore!!!). This went very well, she put her arms around me while I played it cool and we also had a very cool interaction on the dance floor.). In a later scene I tried walking her away but she said she wanted to stay with her friends on the dance floor…. I probably did this too soon or did not explain I want to walk her to my friends to introduce her to them.
I was talkative in general with women and men, and did not feel uncomfortable even where I noticed clearly that there were connections between couples, even where guys clearly wanted to make me disappear. I probably approached another 5 sets.
One girl from Tunisia was actually cool, so I asked if she also had a big booty and walked around to check it out. Her girlfriend tested me and said she considers it rude, so I “absurdified” her comment and said “yes I am the rudest person you would meet, ever!!” That passified her hehehehe
The night was a lot less painful than the previous night. I think what helped me personally was that I would come back and chat with the rest of the team in a “safe spot” and then move from there when I identify the next target group. For me personally this made me feel a lot less awkward and pressured as if I was there with mates rather than just bouncing between sets.
I am very unfamiliar with wingmanship, but saw good examples of your team last night boosting me. Thanks for that.
About 1:45am I noticed a single older Asian lady (a bit older than me) and had a bit of a casual chat there to keep me engaged. She knew I wanted pussy straight off and said in certain terms she would not be leaving with me, well …
I took her over to a couch and sat there, scratched her back lightly as we were talking and I laid back all the time, pulling her closer to me if I wanted to say something. A while later she offered to walk me to my place and the gentleman I am I could not leave her stranded out cold in the street could I … so, mission accomplished!!!
For me this was huge, even though I know how to build comfort in my online dating and taking women home from there the scenario of going to a club and taking a woman home was something I was hoping for always but never achieved in 30 years of hoping for it. That changed on this boot camp!!!!
Needless to say I intend to make good for the 30 year backlog!!!!